Not a whole lot of new things going on for me so I'll let my guest jump right in......
Everyone should know and understand that certain words that we use when communicating with other people are of no use,
and it is advisable to remove them from the vocabulary altogether because they
do not make us positive and attractive, but only emphasize shortcomings. That
is why it is essential to carefully think through and choose the right
expressions since the talking words reflect the inner world of a person and
have high power. With their help, we can form thoughts, gain inspiration, or
lose hope.
If you want to positively influence
others and yourself to look in the best light, try to remove the following
words from your vocabulary permanently.
1. I hate
There is no such person in the world who
would not use this word at least once in life. The problem is that we use this
word too often. Every time people do not like something in their life (even if
it is some small thing), they say "I hate" without thinking. Most
often, it is due to a bad mood or negative emotions. Of
course, sometimes, you need to somehow tell about your dislikes or preferences.
Try replacing a negative word with a more positive one.
2. Someday
This word is a clear signal of your
uncertainty and confusion. When a person pronounces it, then this person shows
low interest and lack of all intentions. If you have a goal, you should go for
it, and not put it off "someday," otherwise your dreams and plans
will never come true. Usually, we put off important matters and decisions until
the time when we are ready, but this time may never come. Act now!
3. I can’t
“I
can’t” is a dead-weight expression, a stop expression that prevents us from
moving forward. Throwing it out of your vocabulary, you will gain the
opportunity to get more motivation, strength, and optimism. Those people who
say that they cannot do something that will never be successful. Instead of
this expression, you can use the following phrase: "I will learn how to do
it." In reality, we can do everything, even those things that at first
seem challenging and unattainable. To do this, you only need to be persistent,
work, and always believe in yourself.
About
the author
Melisa Marzett belongs
to the category of persons who thinks positive, make lemonade from lemons, sees
glasses as half full and so on. Working as a freelance writer, she writes
articles for Writing Help and has a
great deal of experience in writing matters. Apart from writing, she loves
reading obviously and is a voracious reader and enjoys traveling due to being
cannot sit still kind of person.
You are SO right Melisa, I be we ALL can think of a few more words that fit in the category of those we would do well to eliminate from our vocabulary. Thank you so much for sharing with us today.
Hope you enjoyed the post friends. Be sure to check out Melisa's thoughts and treasures she shared with us last year and stop by weekly for more Wednesday Words with Friends and Saturday Spotlight!
Until next time, take care and God bless.
PamT
7 comments:
Hi Melisa,
You give us food for thought this morning. One phrase I don't like is "I'd bet my...." and when people add life in the sentence, I think that's a bit much. Life is too precious.
Blessings on your writing.
Hi Melissa,
I agree that a positive viewpoint is best.
Let's add impossible. Great Post.
Good post especially for January when we're overhauling everything else.
A word switch my husband taught me, early in our marriage: "I feel" instead of "You do 9or don't)." Letting the other person know how their actions affect YOU, and not necessarily putting them down. Because if you express the "I" well enough, they'll get the point and you won't have to put them down.
Kathy Bailey
My dad Would say no such word as can't to me growing up
Yes, yes, yes! Those negative expressions spiral into negative attitudes and self-destructiveness. Good post!
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PamT
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